I got lots of good advice and encouragement from lots of good folks and all of it was helpful.
One thing that stuck out was "This too shall pass". And it shall.
I did talk to my daughter this evening, privately. I was able to get across to my SIL what was bugging me by joking around with him.
So, hopefully today will be better and if it isn't, they will be gone all weekend.
My son and his lovely wife are coming for a visit tomorrow. He is a laugh a minute and she is very sweet. They will stay the night.
In response to my daughter's